<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Stopping to Think]]></title><description><![CDATA[This newsletter is the place for my various contemplations and musings; hopefully it provides a place for you Stop and Think, as well.]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!VnTj!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fb07c31ee-c849-41a1-ad0f-bdcf8da072fe_1280x1280.png</url><title>Stopping to Think</title><link>https://willdole.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2026 02:20:59 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://willdole.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[willdole@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[willdole@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[willdole@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[willdole@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[A Basic Guide to Reading the Bible for Yourself]]></title><description><![CDATA[A simple how-to]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-reading-the-bible</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-reading-the-bible</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2026 10:33:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/206127610/f494c65ba9a9be999194a9cdd4f5aaa4.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>One of the most frequent comments I hear when I talk to people about reading the Bible is &#8220;it just doesn&#8217;t make any sense to me.&#8221; This little guide is my attempt to give some guidance on getting started. (video version at the bottom of the post)</em></p><h1><strong>I. What</strong></h1><p>What is the Bible? The Bible, in short, is the very Word of the Living God.</p><p>When I refer to the Bible, I am referring to the 66 books which include the Old and New Testaments. Included in this &#8220;canon&#8221;<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-1" href="#footnote-1" target="_self">1</a> are the 39 books of the Old Testament that make up the Hebrew Bible, and the 27 books of the New Testament.<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-2" href="#footnote-2" target="_self">2</a></p><p>You&#8217;ll read a lot on the internet these days about the church &#8220;making&#8221; the Bible and suppressing these ideas that contradicted what the &#8220;powerful&#8221; people wanted everyone to believe. This is simple hogwash. The truth is far more simple, and less sensational. The church did not &#8220;pick and choose&#8221; which books to include in the Bible, but rather came to recognize those books which had the marks of true Divine Authorship, and in the course of time the church came to a clear consensus.<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-3" href="#footnote-3" target="_self">3</a></p><p>The Scriptures themselves testify to their own Divine Origin and Authority: &#8220;All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable&#8221; (2 Timothy 3:16), &#8220;no prophecy ever came by human will, but men spoke from God as they were carried along by the Holy Spirit&#8221; (2 Peter 1:21).</p><p>In the Scriptures we hear the very voice of God, graciously disclosed in the written speech to his creatures.</p><h1>II. Why</h1><p>Why would you want to read the Bible? What are you hoping to get out of it? Well, based on our definition above&#8212;that the scriptures are the self-disclosure of God to his creatures&#8212;the core reason we come to the Bible is to hear God&#8217;s voice.</p><p>We need to hear God&#8217;s voice, first of all, to <em>know</em> him. The Bible reveals to us the character of God and the work of God, especially his saving work revealed in the Gospel of Jesus Christ.</p><p>We need to hear God&#8217;s voice in order to <em>see</em> ourselves, both as we were made to be (Genesis 1:26-28), and as we are this side of the fall (Romans 3:23).</p><p>We need to hear God&#8217;s voice in order to <em>live</em> in accord with his intention. The Scriptures are fundamentally relational documents. They are not mere history, or a record of God&#8217;s words and work in the past. They are his word for us <strong>today</strong> (Romans 15:4, cf. 1 Corinthians 10:6).</p><h1>III. How</h1><p>Okay, if the Bible is God&#8217;s word, how should we then read?</p><p>Many years ago <a href="https://rmbible.org/btc/btc-curriculum">I was taught</a> an acronym for Bible reading: <strong>CPRS</strong>. We should read:</p><ol><li><p><strong>Carefully</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>Prayerfully</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>Repeatedly</strong></p></li><li><p><strong>Slowly</strong></p><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-reading-the-bible?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Stopping to Think! This post is public so feel free to share it.</p></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-reading-the-bible?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-reading-the-bible?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p></div></li></ol><h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Carefully</strong></h2><p>What does it mean to read carefully? It means that we must <em>pay attention </em>to what we are reading. This is harder than it sounds, and frankly it&#8217;s a lot harder than it was when I first learned this acronym. We live in a world where multi-billion-dollar-companies are entirely invested in harvesting and selling your attention and the associated data. This is linked to that handy glowing screen, on which you are likely reading this very article. You might feel focused at the moment, but we are only seconds away from you being distracted by a text or a phone call or an email notification. And even if those things <em>don&#8217;t </em>come, you are distracted, at least subconsciously, by the anticipation. </p><div class="pullquote"><p>Practically speaking, this means that careful Bible reading is going to require some separation. </p></div><p>So, practically speaking, this means that careful Bible reading is going to require some separation. It&#8217;s going to mean you need to create a time and place&#8212;even if it&#8217;s just 10 minutes&#8212;where your phone isn&#8217;t with you, and you pick up your paper Bible and carefully read. Give yourself some space to think. As Sinclair Ferguson put it plainly, &#8220;Christians need to <em>think</em> about what the Bible says.&#8221;<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-4" href="#footnote-4" target="_self">4</a></p><p>Try to notice things. What do you notice? It helps to keep a note pad or even a sticky note in or near your Bible to jot things down. Ask questions. What kind of questions? I&#8217;ll include a starter list below. </p><h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Prayerfully</strong> </h2><p>The Psalmist wrote: &#8220;Help me understand your instruction&#8221; (Psalm 119:34, CSB). If we are going to rightly understand God&#8217;s word, then we must ask God to help us understand his words. </p><div class="pullquote"><p><em>Pray for understanding and pray&#8230;to obey</em></p></div><p>We also pray as we read the Bible because the Bible itself is the best school of prayer. As you read the Bible, you will learn God&#8217;s language. You will encounter God&#8217;s actions in history, you will learn about his power, his promises, and his priorities. And while normal reading skills are genuinely useful, and advanced study and thought will help you along the way, ultimately, this is a spiritual endeavor. To quote Martin Luther, the 16th century church reformer:</p><blockquote><p>&#8220;That the Holy Scriptures cannot be penetrated by study and talent is most certain. Therefore your first duty is to pray&#8230;for no master of the divine words exists except the Author of these words.&#8221;<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-5" href="#footnote-5" target="_self">5</a></p></blockquote><p>Pray for understanding, and pray for the ability and desire to obey his words (Philippians 2:13-14).</p><h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Repeatedly</strong> </h2><p>I was once listening to a lecture by New Testament scholar D.A. Carson, and he said something that, at one level, was obvious&#8230;but that I had never really integrated intentionally into my Bible reading. What he pointed out was that the Bible is <em>meditative</em> literature.</p><div class="pullquote"><p>You shouldn&#8217;t expect to sit down and give it a single read-through and understand everything. </p></div><p>What he meant by that is that the Bible is meant to be read little by little, with you going back over and chewing on, mulling over, <em>meditating</em>, upon what you&#8217;ve just read. You shouldn&#8217;t expect to sit down and give it a single read-through and understand everything. </p><p>That should encourage you. Over the years I&#8217;ve heard many people bemoan the fact that they read something and don&#8217;t understand it, or even forget it. Friends: <em>it&#8217;s okay. </em>Just read it.</p><p>And read it again.</p><p>And again.</p><p>And again.</p><p> &#8220;Blessed is the man&#8230;[whose] delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night&#8221; (Psalm 1:1&#8211;2). Meditation, biblically speaking, is not the emptying of your mind. It is fixing your mind on something, focusing on it, and turning it over and over and over. Reading something repeatedly is a basic form of meditation.</p><h2 style="text-align: center;"><strong>Slowly</strong> </h2><p>Don&#8217;t be in a hurry. Even if your time available is short, just be okay with reading a very short passage and slowly reading over it. I would encourage you to read out loud. This is a great way to slow yourself down, engage more of your senses, and increase your comprehension and retention. I will even do this with longer passages if I have a lot of time but am trying to fightmy mind drifting away.</p><div class="pullquote"><p>&#8220;You don&#8217;t read the Bible to finish. You read the Bible to change.&#8221;</p></div><p>Don&#8217;t be embarrassed to read slow. I love what my old pastor, Dave Donnerberg, used to say: &#8220;You don&#8217;t read the Bible to finish. You read the Bible to change.&#8221; Reading the Bible in such a way that God changes you, from the inside out, does not come from speed reading. It comes from slow reading.</p><h1>IV. Specifics</h1><p>As you start reading the Bible, I would suggest you set a specific time of day when you will read the Bible <em>every day</em>. That&#8217;s not because God will zap you dead or be disappointed in you if you miss a day, but because if you want this to be a habit, it really is going to be hard to establish if you don&#8217;t make it an every day thing. Most people are going to have better success in the morning. And I would set aside 10-15 minutes to start with. Even if you have more time available, start there until the habit is established, so that it doesn&#8217;t feel overwhelming. And then, don&#8217;t feel bad or give up if you miss a day (or a week!), just hop back on the horse and keep going.</p><p>It will also be beneficial to establishing the habit if you set a regular <em>place. </em>For me that has some flex&#8212;my kitchen table is &#8220;the place&#8221;, but I will move outside to my patio if the weather is nice. It really helps me to smell fresh air and hear the birds as I read and pray.</p><p>I would suggest starting with some well-known passages. Read those passages repeatedly until you feel ready to move on. At the end of this post I will attach a 60-day plan you can use, if that is helpful to you.</p><p>Also, below you will find the questions I promised above. I wrote these down originally for my older son, as he and I have started to read the Bible together. The first five are intended to help you think carefully, and the next three to help you read prayerfully, and hopefully you will be able to answer them all as you read repeatedly and slowly. </p><p>Careful Questions and Prayerful Questions:</p><h3><strong>Careful Questions:</strong> </h3><p>a) What did I notice? </p><p>b) What is confusing, or do I not understand? </p><p>c) What does this teach me about God? </p><p>d) What does this teach me about myself? </p><p>e) How can I obey this part of God&#8217;s word?</p><h3><strong>Prayerful Questions:</strong> </h3><p>a) How can I thank God based on what I read? </p><p>b) What else do I need to ask for his help with? </p><p>c) What do I need to ask him to help me understand?</p><h1>V. Finally</h1><p>You may have noticed that the last two questions were more broad. That is intentional. Reading God&#8217;s word meditatively will help us to understand his word better, but it is also a doorway to communing with him. It&#8217;s going to bring to mind things far beyond what you read. Like a conversation with a dear friend or trusted mentor, the conversation may drift as you pray. That&#8217;s okay. Embrace conversation with your Heavenly Father.</p><p>Reading God&#8217;s word is one of the most rewarding things you can do. I cannot promise that it will instantly change your life. But I can assure you that, if you dedicate yourself to it, it will <em>shape </em>your life.</p><p>May God add his blessing to your reading of his word. </p><blockquote><p>&#8220;For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven and do not return there but water the earth, making it bring forth and sprout, giving seed to the sower and bread to the eater, so shall my word be that goes out from my mouth; it shall not return to me empty, but it shall accomplish that which I purpose, and shall succeed in the thing for which I sent it.&#8221; (Isaiah 55:10-11)</p></blockquote><div><hr></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vSqKuVkgo-g0eJLMlVQsgHxnYX3qzwPyMjBhktVoExlozWGKNiRFdgCUKBJeJhpzjs7CJYJZZ_A0fra/pubhtml&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;60 Day Plan&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;button-wrapper&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary button-wrapper" href="https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/e/2PACX-1vSqKuVkgo-g0eJLMlVQsgHxnYX3qzwPyMjBhktVoExlozWGKNiRFdgCUKBJeJhpzjs7CJYJZZ_A0fra/pubhtml"><span>60 Day Plan</span></a></p><div><hr></div><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. Do you enjoy resources like this? To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><div data-component-name="FragmentNodeToDOM"><p></p></div><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-1" href="#footnote-anchor-1" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">1</a><div class="footnote-content"><p><em>Canon</em> is a word that means &#8220;rule&#8221; or &#8220;measure&#8221; or &#8220;standard&#8221; &#8212; thus, the <em>canon</em> of Scripture is the collection of books that the church has accepted as being the Word of God. It is the standard by which claims to faith and doctrine are judged.</p></div></div><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-2" href="#footnote-anchor-2" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">2</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>Not included are the books of the Apocrypha, which the Roman Catholic church did not adopt into their canon until the Council of Trent in 1546. </p></div></div><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-3" href="#footnote-anchor-3" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">3</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>See: Wayne Grudem, <em>Systematic Theology</em>, pg. 64, Bruce Shelley, <em>Church History in Plain Language</em>, pg. 67</p></div></div><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-4" href="#footnote-anchor-4" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">4</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>Sinclair Ferguson, <em>From the Mouth of God, </em>pg 63</p></div></div><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-5" href="#footnote-anchor-5" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">5</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>Quoted in John Piper, <em>21 Servants of Sovereign Joy</em>, pg. 88</p><p></p></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Basic Guide to Sermon Writing]]></title><description><![CDATA[Simple how-to]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-sermon-writing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-sermon-writing</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2026 11:08:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure 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viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@uns__nstudio">Unseen Studio</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p><em>Below is a very simple introduction that I wrote for my brother before the first time he had to preach. I was going over it again to walk through with a young man in our congregation as he prepares to preach for the first time. </em></p><p><em>If you have never preached before, or are new to the craft, I hope this is helpful to you. For those who&#8217;ll never preach, maybe it will give you a little glimpse of what&#8217;s going on in the lead up to Sunday morning (turns out the preacher has to work more than one day per week!).</em></p><p><em>Of course, I&#8217;m not saying everything that could be said here. A season preacher may read this and think, &#8220;how could you have left out____?!&#8221; Well, drop a comment below to tell me what I missed.</em></p><div><hr></div><h2><strong><span>An Introductory Guide to Sermon Preparation</span></strong></h2><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><p><strong><span>Introduction:</span></strong></p><p><span>Below I&#8217;m going to outline something approximating the process I go through to move from text to sermon. I don&#8217;t necessarily check off every box every week, but this is the rough process. Where possible, I&#8217;ll include a link if you want to read more on each point.</span></p><ol><li><p><strong><span>Pick a text.</span></strong><span> It&#8217;s easier to select a portion of scripture based on some natural separation in the text (a specific Psalm, a natural division in a narrative, a particular Proverb, a paragraph in an argument, etc). The earlier you pick your text the better off you&#8217;ll be, because the work can&#8217;t really get started until you&#8217;ve done that. If you have to preach for any length of time, </span><strong><span>I strongly suggest picking a book of the Bible and starting to work through passage by passage. </span></strong><span>This removes one of the biggest stressors in preaching: what are we going to talk about next week? </span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://lifewayresearch.com/2019/09/18/12-reasons-to-commit-to-expository-preaching/"><span>https://lifewayresearch.com/2019/09/18/12-reasons-to-commit-to-expository-preaching/</span></a></p></div></li></ol><ol start="2"><li><p><strong><span>Work to understand the selected text.</span></strong><span> In Jen Wilkin&#8217;s book </span><em><span>Women of the Word</span></em><span> she summarizes the process with the acronym CIA: Comprehension (understanding the words, sentences, paragraphs, etc), Interpretation (understand what the author meant to convey to the original readers by those words), Application (how does that original meaning impact my life/thinking/heart today). Most of the rest of what I&#8217;m going to list after this is just an extension of the Comprehension and the Interpretation, and then the sermon writing is figuring out Application for myself and the audience together. </span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.christianbook.com/study-bible-hearts-minds-second-edition/jen-wilkin/9781433567148/pd/567140?en=google&amp;event=SHOP&amp;kw=christian-living-0-20%7C567140&amp;p=1179710&amp;dv=c&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwo-aCBhC-ARIsAAkNQivsyDbrQ-RvNZGKwmvspPDNLuWtOIIkqnPxgfaKMPlTUGfcTEMXyGwaAvRSEALw_wcB"><span>Here&#8217;s the link to her book</span></a><span>. </span></p></div></li></ol><ol start="3"><li><p><strong><span>Read your passage.</span></strong><span> Over. And over. And over. Listen to it. Have someone else read it to you. Read it in more than one translation. Go verse by verse and summarize each verse in your own words. Try to notice if there are words that are repeated, and write down any questions which come to mind. Try to answer those questions.  The goal of reading over and over is to come up with the main meaning of the passage: what was the original author trying to communicate to his original audience? Once I&#8217;ve determined that </span><em><span>main </span></em><span>meaning, then I want to see how the other pieces of the passage build to or otherwise support that meaning. </span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-read-the-bible-for-yourself"><span>https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-read-the-bible-for-yourself</span></a></p></div></li></ol><ol start="4"><li><p><strong><span>Summarize, in one sentence, the driving theme of the sermon</span></strong><span>. I don&#8217;t always do this, but believe me, the sermon is better when I do. I&#8217;ve also heard it suggested by some that this sentence should be less than 11 words, which makes it clearer in your mind. Then make sure everything else you say in some way is serving that sentence. For example, for John 3:16, my sentence might be something like: &#8220;Receive the eternal love of God by believing in his Son.&#8221; You might notice that </span><strong><span>the verse</span></strong><span> is focused on what </span><em><span>God has done</span></em><span>. </span><strong><span>The sermon</span></strong><span> sentence is focused on an </span><em><span>action in the congregation</span></em><span>. Preaching expects a response, and so sermons should be constructed accordingly. I don&#8217;t just want the congregation to know </span><em><span>about </span></em><span>God&#8217;s love, I want them to receive and experience that love. So you explain the text, but you also press home the need to respond to the truth in the text.</span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><span>Here is a link to some affordable classes by really good preachers: </span><a href="https://simeontrust.org/online-courses/"><span>https://simeontrust.org/online-courses/</span></a></p></div></li><li><p><span>Try to outline the most logical progression of the points. Sometimes that just follows the order in which they arise in the passage. Sometimes you might rearrange in order to make it more memorable or easier to follow.</span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://hbcharlesjr.com/resource-library/articles/how-to-structure-a-sermon/"><span>https://hbcharlesjr.com/resource-library/articles/how-to-structure-a-sermon/</span></a></p></div></li></ol><ol start="6"><li><p><span>Once you have your points outlined, try to come up with both illustrations (that show this truth in action; this could be a story, an analogy, sometimes even a joke works here) and applications (what do I do with this truth?) for all of your points. They might not all make it into the sermon, but try to think it through and make sure that your sermon does have both illustration and application. Illustrations help people understand and remember, and application is what they&#8217;re looking for as the &#8220;take-home&#8221; value. </span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/5-types-of-sermon-illustrations-and-how-to-use-them/"><span>https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/5-types-of-sermon-illustrations-and-how-to-use-them/</span></a></p></div><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/learning-the-art-of-sermon-application/"><span>https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/learning-the-art-of-sermon-application/</span></a></p></div></li><li><p><span>Once you have that structure in place, then it&#8217;s easier to start writing. The two most important sections to focus on writing are the introduction (you&#8217;re trying to get their attention/earn a hearing) and the conclusion (people can get over turbulence in-flight so long as you don&#8217;t crash the plane at the end).</span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://hbcharlesjr.com/resource-library/articles/on-writing-sermon-manuscripts/"><span>https://hbcharlesjr.com/resource-library/articles/on-writing-sermon-manuscripts/</span></a></p></div></li><li><p><span>On a really practical note, type in a font that&#8217;s easy on your eyes and convenient to read. Times, Georgia, Cambria, etc. Basically </span><a href="https://designshack.net/articles/typography/serif-vs-sans-serif-fonts-is-one-really-better-than-the-other/#:~:text=Serifs%20Are%20Hard%20to%20Read,the%20eye%20to%20recognize%20quickly."><span>any serif font</span></a><span> that is easy on the eyes. I also want the font to be big enough to easily read, so at least 12 point. And you should also consider line spacing. I prefer 1.5 (most word processors are set to 1 or 1.15; college papers are usually 2 or &#8220;double-spaced&#8221;). You just want the lines far enough apart that you don&#8217;t get lost moving through.</span></p></li></ol><ol start="9"><li><p><span>As far as length, until you get comfortable, I&#8217;d shoot for 20-25 minutes. For me that is about 5ish pages of 12 point 1.5 spaced manuscript, also taking into account bigger spaces for new sections of the sermon, etc.</span></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://lifewayresearch.com/2020/05/19/why-i-stopped-preaching-long-sermons/"><span>https://lifewayresearch.com/2020/05/19/why-i-stopped-preaching-long-sermons/</span></a></p></div><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/preachers-toolkit-how-long-should-my-sermons-be/"><span>https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/preachers-toolkit-how-long-should-my-sermons-be/</span></a></p></div></li><li><p><span>Pray your heart out. This should really run through the whole process, but especially getting ready to preach. And I find I do some of my hardest praying while I&#8217;m preaching.</span></p><p><span>This is a super helpful, short book:</span><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Your-Prayer-Michael-Reeves/dp/1909611646"><span> </span></a></p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Enjoy-Your-Prayer-Michael-Reeves/dp/1909611646"><span>Enjoy Your Prayer Life by Michael Reeves</span></a></p></div></li></ol><p></p><p><span>I hope this is helpful. If it&#8217;s not-well, you get what you pay for! If you need any other help, advice, etc-just holler! I&#8217;m more than glad to help in any way I can.</span></p><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-basic-guide-to-sermon-writing?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Stopping to Think! 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I wish I had seen this podcast episode before I wrote it! It&#8217;s a helpful conversation between Jason McConnell of the Rural Church Institute at Wheaton, and Ira Antoine of the Texas Baptists discussing some of the blessings and burdens of bi-vocational ministry. </p><p>I&#8217;m planning to start a series of short articles with suggestions for my fellow bi-vocational laborers, but let me just drop one point that I think is crucial to making bi-vocational ministry work:</p><p><em><strong>Realistic Expectations are Everything.</strong></em></p><p>The experience of the church, and the pastor, are deeply affected by the expectations they have for what ministry <em>can be </em>and what it <em>should be.</em> Until then, though, I commend this conversation to you.</p><div id="youtube2-dszyESE5I2c" class="youtube-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;videoId&quot;:&quot;dszyESE5I2c&quot;,&quot;startTime&quot;:null,&quot;endTime&quot;:null}" data-component-name="Youtube2ToDOM"><div class="youtube-inner"><iframe src="https://www.youtube-nocookie.com/embed/dszyESE5I2c?rel=0&amp;autoplay=0&amp;showinfo=0&amp;enablejsapi=0" frameborder="0" loading="lazy" gesture="media" allow="autoplay; fullscreen" allowautoplay="true" allowfullscreen="true" width="728" height="409"></iframe></div></div><div><hr></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@jule_42">Juliane Liebermann</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p><em>I&#8217;m never early to a writing party. This is the second in a two-part series, which logically would have come out last week. But here we are. I think the truths are timeless, so you can schedule a text or email to yourself with the link to read it <strong>before next </strong>Father&#8217;s Day, if you find it helpful. </em><a href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/2b7512cc-d04b-4ba0-b022-4446cda2e076">Here&#8217;s part one.</a></p><div><hr></div><blockquote><p><strong><span>3 John 1-15 (ESV)</span></strong><span>, 1 The elder to the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth.</span></p><p><span>Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul. 3 For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.</span></p><p><span>5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who testified to your love before the church. You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we may be fellow workers for the truth.</span></p><p><span>9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who want to and puts them out of the church.</span></p><p><span>11 Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our testimony, and you know that our testimony is true.</span></p><p><span>13 I had much to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face.</span></p><p><span>15 Peace be to you. The friends greet you. Greet the friends, each by name.</span></p></blockquote><p></p><p><span>In the previous post, I argued that John&#8217;s statement in verse 4, </span><em><span>I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in truth, </span></em><span>expresses an important biblical principle: joy in Jesus is a communal reality, not merely an individual one. Specifically, the joy fathers and pastors experience in the obedience of their children (physical or spiritual) to the truth </span><em><span>should </span></em><span>be our greatest earthly joy. </span></p><p><span>But as I reflected on that reality while reading 3 John, it also seemed to me that John is helpfully demonstrating for us some principles as to </span><strong><span>how we can help</span></strong><span> our children walk in the truth. And so I want to share those with you here.<a class="footnote-anchor" data-component-name="FootnoteAnchorToDOM" id="footnote-anchor-1" href="#footnote-1" target="_self">1</a></span></p><p><span>I think this short letter gives us at least five angles from which to approach this task, and they&#8217;re all verbal (which we&#8217;ll lean into with the sixth and the final point). So we might call these five modes of speech to help your children walk in truth.</span></p><h2><strong><span>1. Pray for them, v2-3</span></strong></h2><p><span>Once he&#8217;s past the formal greeting, the first thing John says is that he is </span><em><span>praying </span></em><span>for Gaius. And his prayer is a simple one: he wants all to go well with him. And that wellness consists of two parts. </span><em><span>Earthly </span></em><span>wellbeing and </span><em><span>spiritual </span></em><span>wellbeing. </span><em><span>&#8220;Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.&#8221;</span></em></p><p><span>Friends, it&#8217;s easy to get really busy </span><em><span>doing </span></em><span>stuff for the wellbeing of our children. We haul them to games and concerts and school activities of various flavors. We take them to church and children&#8217;s and youth activities because we care about their souls, too. You put money in the 529 plan, you help them look for good scholarship opportunities. You&#8217;re making sure they get work experience to develop that part of their character. You make sure they get the medical help they may need. These are all good. </span></p><p><span>But do you </span><em><span>pray </span></em><span>for your children? Do you pray for the Lord to give them their daily bread, today and tomorrow, and in the decades to come? Do you pray for those real material needs to be met, and that</span><em><span> all would go well </span></em><span>with them? Some Christians feel guilty praying that way. </span><em><span>Should I really pray for earthly blessings for my children? That doesn&#8217;t seem very spiritual. </span></em><span>But you don&#8217;t need to bad. John didn&#8217;t. Your children need, as Jesus says, </span><em><span>all these things. </span></em><span>And you should pray for God&#8217;s provision in their lives. </span></p><p><span>You should also pray for their spiritual lives. For the Lord to give them the gift of faith, for their eyes to be open to the reality of his presence and provision. It&#8217;s easy to be blinded by the horizontal and forget the vertical. Your child&#8217;s deepest need is reconciliation with the Almighty God of the Universe through His Son Jesus Christ. Do you pray for them to trust in him, and then to grow in grace? Do you pray for them to keep in step with the Spirit? I&#8217;m sure part of John&#8217;s joy in </span><em><span>seeing </span></em><span>the obedience to the truth in his spiritual children was the fact that he was seeing something he had </span><em><span>prayed </span></em><span>for. </span><em><span>&#8220;For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth&#8221; </span></em><span>(v3). </span></p><p><span>Fathers, pray for your children.</span></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe now&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?"><span>Subscribe now</span></a></p><h2><strong><span>2. Affirm them (where they are), 5-6a</span></strong></h2><p><span>Fathers, you ought also to affirm your children. </span><em><span>&#8220;5 Beloved, it is a faithful thing you do in all your efforts for these brothers, strangers as they are, 6 who testified to your love before the church.&#8221;</span></em><span> </span></p><p><span>In his previous letter, John had warned the church about false teachers who had gone out into the world, and exhorted them not to receive such people into the church or support them in any way. Here, we find the opposite. Gaius has welcomed </span><em><span>true </span></em><span>ministers of the gospel, though he did not personally know them. And John makes it a point to say </span><em><span>that was a faithful thing you did. </span></em><span>This is not just &#8220;good job&#8221; in a generic sense, but it&#8217;s observing a specific action and calling out the goodness of that action, recognizing it as an evidence of grace, and making clear that it was not in vain. </span></p><p><span>There are few things more powerful when leading people than words of </span><em><span>specific </span></em><span>positive affirmation. I saw this as someone who is quick to point out the negative, speedy to correct an error, with a keen eye to every flaw&#8212;and friends, there&#8217;s a time and a place for that&#8212;but those things will only be heard and received if they are coming in the context of love. And love presents itself as being </span><em><span>for </span></em><span>the other person. </span></p><p><span>Fathers, do your kids know that you are </span><em><span>for </span></em><span>them, not against them? Have you created an oppositional atmosphere in your home, or do you view your children as a gift&#8212;like arrows in the hands of a skilled warrior meant to be sent into the battle?  </span></p><p><span>This is something you can do whether your children are two or twenty-two or forty-two or sixty-two. If you recognize something good&#8212;an action, an attitude, or a word&#8212;something that is pleasing to the Lord, meditate on it, and </span><em><span>tell </span></em><span>your son or daughter what you see. </span><em><span>Affirm </span></em><span>that which is good and noble and right in them. And then, encourage them to build on that. </span></p><h2><strong><span>3. Encourage them (to go further), 6b-8</span></strong></h2><p><span>John commended Gaius for his reception of these brothers, and then continued, </span></p><blockquote><p><em><span>&#8220;You will do well to send them on their journey in a manner worthy of God. 7 For they have gone out for the sake of the name, accepting nothing from the Gentiles. 8 Therefore we ought to support people like these, that we may be fellow workers for the truth.&#8221;</span></em></p></blockquote><p><span>John called out a specific action in Gaius: now he points out how he can build on that foundation and continue to grow in godliness. He tells him how he can act in a manner worthy of God and be a fellow worker with these traveling brothers in their dissemination of the truth. This is why I made a point under the previous heading to say this was not </span><em><span>generic </span></em><span>praise. &#8220;You&#8217;re a good boy&#8221; isn&#8217;t that helpful. </span></p><p><span>Being a pastor, I hear a lot of &#8220;good sermon, pastor&#8221; &#8212; and while I&#8217;m thankful for that and strongly prefer it to, &#8220;that stinks, you&#8217;re awful&#8221; &#8212; it&#8217;s really not much to build on. Specificity gives a place to build either a constructive critique or, to our point here, a clear vision for growth. </span></p><p><span>Fathers, we are living in an age where people really buy into the lie of &#8220;you can be anything you want.&#8221; Your child cannot be anything he or she wants. God made them a certain way. They are wired to do certain things. He puts before them certain opportunities. And one of your roles as a father is to help your children see clearly who they are, where there opportunities lie, and develop accordingly. </span><em><span>Affirm </span></em><span>what&#8217;s good where they are, but also </span><em><span>encourage them </span></em><span>to go further. </span></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/helping-your-children-walk-in-truth?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/helping-your-children-walk-in-truth?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><h2><strong><span>4. Warn them (about troubles), v9-10</span></strong></h2><p><span>Now, one of the biggest roadblocks to them going further will be the various kinds of opposition they will face. John saw that Diotrephes, who it seems was also fairly prominent in this Ephesian church, was going to be causing problems for Gaius in his task of sending the brothers on in a worthy way. </span></p><blockquote><p><em><span>&#8220;9 I have written something to the church, but Diotrephes, who likes to put himself first, does not acknowledge our authority. 10 So if I come, I will bring up what he is doing, talking wicked nonsense against us. And not content with that, he refuses to welcome the brothers, and also stops those who want to and puts them out of the church.&#8221;</span></em></p></blockquote><p><span>As fathers, we shouldn&#8217;t send our children into the world with an overly rosy picture of humanity. We shouldn&#8217;t send them to </span><em><span>church </span></em><span>with an overly rosy view of humanity. All human beings are image bearers of God, and should be treated with dignity, love, and respect. And some of them are a real pain in the neck, and speak a lot of wicked nonsense. Some of them are going to not acknowledge the authorities you have taught them to recognize&#8212;yourself, their teachers, leaders in the church&#8212;and you need to warn them about that so that they can stand against the folly, and not wither in the face of it. For Gaius to follow through on John&#8217;s instruction, he was going to have to be willing to stand up in the face of Diatrophean opposition and not melt.</span></p><p><span>Fathers, help your children walk in the truth by telling them ahead of time that there will be those who oppose them.</span></p><h2><strong><span>5. Remind them (who is worth imitating), v11-12</span></strong></h2><p><span>But, here again, we should not settle for negative warnings&#8212;we must also put in front of them </span><em><span>positive </span></em><span>examples. Remind them who </span><em><span>is </span></em><span>worth imitating. </span></p><blockquote><p><em><span>&#8220;11 Beloved, do not imitate evil but imitate good. Whoever does good is from God; whoever does evil has not seen God. 12 Demetrius has received a good testimony from everyone, and from the truth itself. We also add our testimony, and you know that our testimony is true.&#8221;</span></em></p></blockquote><p><span>Do you have regular conversations with your children where you evaluate the actions of those around them? You have to be careful here, we don&#8217;t want to raise a bunch of Pharisees who think they are better than others, but when you leave Wal Mart and we all saw that kid screaming at his mom, you&#8217;re well within bounds to ask&#8212; &#8220;was that appropriate? Will you speak to your mother that way? If you did speak to your mother in such a fashion, how might that alter your life expectancy?&#8221; Or, as you&#8217;re watching movies or reading books together, have honest conversations about the </span><em><span>character</span></em><span> of the characters. What is </span><em><span>less </span></em><span>than admirable? What</span><em><span> is </span></em><span>admirable?</span></p><p><span>It gets poo-pooed a lot these days as a way of reading, but a lot of Old Testament narratives teach us by painting certain characters in a good or bad light. We should learn from those divinely inspired narrators. I&#8217;m preaching in Genesis, and Joseph is one of two genuine exemplars in the Old Testament, in the sense of someone whose flaws are all off-camera. Not so with his older brother Judah. Joseph is a great example to say, &#8220;be like him!&#8221; But Judah&#8217;s story is also very instructive. He goes from a </span><em><span>very </span></em><span>unsavory character, to one who recognizes his sin, and then becomes a man willing to lay down his life for his brothers. Notice those things, notice character arcs, and hold them before your children. </span></p><p><span>We are imitative creatures, and when we speak about the people and characters we admire, and why we admire them, we are training their loves. &#8220;Dare to be a Daniel&#8212;or a Shadrach, Meshach, or Abednego&#8221; is a perfectly legitimate lesson to press home when you&#8217;re reading through Daniel in family devotions. In the church as Ephesus, Demetrius was a good dude, the kind of man worthy Gaius&#8217; imitation&#8212;everyone saw it, the truth itself testified to him, and John throws in his own good word for good measure. Who are you teaching your children to </span><em><span>be </span></em><span>like?</span></p><h2><strong><span>6. Talk to them (in person), v13-14</span></strong></h2><p><span>Of course, all of that requires talking, and that&#8217;s our final point: you&#8217;ve got to talk to your children, and it is strongly preferable to do that in person whenever possible. Teach your children that you value them and their well being by being present with them. Obviously this changes for those of you whose children have grown up and moved out, but even there, prioritizing time together face-to-face is still, to the extent possible, a genuine investment. </span><em><span>&#8220;13 I had much to write to you, but I would rather not write with pen and ink. 14 I hope to see you soon, and we will talk face to face.&#8221;</span></em></p><p><span>Make regular space to speak personally, positively, and constructively into their lives. Face-to-face.</span></p><h2><strong><span>Conclusion</span></strong></h2><p><span>Fathers, be intentional. There is no greater earthly joy than to see your children walking in the truth. Utilize these five modes of speech&#8212;prayer, affirmation, encouragement, warning, reminder, all in the context of regular face-to-face conversation&#8212;to invest in their well being. Be intentional. Children don&#8217;t stumble into the truth, they are discipled into the truth.</span></p><div class="footnote" data-component-name="FootnoteToDOM"><a id="footnote-1" href="#footnote-anchor-1" class="footnote-number" contenteditable="false" target="_self">1</a><div class="footnote-content"><p>Obviously the things I say here will apply beyond the home (to the church) and beyond fathers (to mothers), but I&#8217;m just going to acknowledge that here and not caveat and inclusivize my language through the rest of this piece.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg aria-hidden="true" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@sarasunshine">Sara Graham</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p></p><p><em>I&#8217;m never early to a writing party. This is the first in a two-part series, which logically would have come out last week. But here we are. I think the truths are timeless, so you can schedule a text or email to yourself with the link to read it <strong>before next </strong>Father&#8217;s Day.</em></p><div><hr></div><h2><span>Joy</span></h2><p><span>Fathers, where do you find joy? In your team winning? In a raise at work? In a well-deserved vacation? In a tree stand on an autumn&#8217;s morning? I&#8217;m not here to heckle you about any of those things&#8212;I think these, and many other places, are perfectly legitimate sources of joy.</span></p><p><span>But where do you find your </span><em><span>deepest </span></em><span>joy? To answer that question biblically I&#8217;d direct your attention to a brief letter in the New Testament: 3 John.</span></p><blockquote><p><strong><span>3 John 3-4</span></strong><span>, </span><em><span>3 For I rejoiced greatly when the brothers came and testified to your truth, as indeed you are walking in the truth. 4 I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.</span></em></p></blockquote><h2>Walking in the Truth</h2><p><span>In seeking to understand John&#8217;s words in these verses, we should first ask what he means by &#8220;walking in the truth.&#8221; It&#8217;s not a complex idea, but it&#8217;s an important one. John, in his first epistle, has three running tests to help Christians evaluate whether they in fact have salvation. There&#8217;s a </span><strong><span>doctrinal test</span></strong><span>&#8212;do you believe in the right Jesus? Namely, do you believe that Jesus of Nazareth is the Christ&#8212;the promised Messiah? Do you believe he is the Son of God? Do you believe he is the only Savior who can make you right with God? Good. That&#8217;s test one. </span></p><p><span>Second, do you live the right way? That is not to say you must meet some standard of perfection&#8212;remember, part of what we believe about Jesus is that </span><em><span>he </span></em><span>is the Savior&#8212;but if you believe in him, then your life will start to change. You will walk in the light as he is in the light. You will embrace a life of repentance and obedience. If that&#8217;s you, then you&#8217;ve also passed the </span><strong><span>moral test</span></strong><span>. </span></p><p><span>Third, there is the </span><strong><span>love test.</span></strong><span> Do you love the people of God, the brotherhood of believers? If you are to love the unseen God that will </span><em><span>necessarily include </span></em><span>loving his visible people, his children&#8212;</span><em><span>your </span></em><span>brothers and sisters.</span></p><p><span>I think when John says </span><em><span>walking in the truth </span></em><span>here, this is exactly what he means. He&#8217;s heard the report of </span><em><span>some </span></em><span>people in the church walking in truth (2 John 4). They are living the Christian life to the full, trusting in Jesus, repenting of their sins and pursuing obedience, and loving one another. And this reality brings John joy. In fact, he says that </span><em><span>he has no greater joy </span></em><span>than to know his children are walking in truth.</span></p><h2>Too Far?</h2><p><span>Now, if you&#8217;ve been in church long enough, you might think that John has gotten a little carried away with his rhetoric. Shouldn&#8217;t his greatest joy be in his </span><em><span>personal </span></em><span>salvation? His </span><em><span>own </span></em><span>walk with Christ? Shouldn&#8217;t his identity in Christ trump all his other concerns, even whether or not those whom he loves are themselves walking in the truth? Jesus + nothing = everything, right? </span></p><p><span>That sounds pretty pious. It sounds like the sort of thing you&#8217;d hear in a sermon or on a Christian podcast. Your </span><em><span>personal </span></em><span>relationship with Jesus is the most important thing. You shouldn&#8217;t look anywhere else for your joy.</span></p><p><span>Here&#8217;s the deal, though. The </span><em><span>Bible</span></em><span>, that is, the B.I.B.L.E, paints a more complicated picture. Hear the words of the Apostle Paul: </span></p><blockquote><p><span>Romans 9:2-3, </span><em><span>I have great sorrow and unceasing anguish in my heart. For I could wish that I myself were accursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my brothers, my kinsmen according to the flesh.</span></em><span> </span></p></blockquote><p><span>Here, it seems Paul is giving us the inverse of John&#8217;s statement in 3 John 4&#8212;his greatest </span><em><span>sorrow</span></em><span> is knowing that his kinsmen are cut off from Christ by their unbelief. They are not walking in the truth, and thus are not safe in Christ. Paul then goes so far as to wish that he himself were cut off if it would mean salvation for his kinsmen! This is a profound love, and it displays a deeply biblical principle: our love for others and concern for their wellbeing is </span><em><span>intertwined </span></em><span>with our own experience of joy.</span></p><p><span>To be sure, the apostle Paul writes, </span><em><span>I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ and be found in him </span></em><span>(Philippians 3:9-10). The Lord Jesus asks, rhetorically, </span><em><span>For what will it profit a man if he gains the whole world and forfeits his soul? Or what shall a man give in return for his soul?</span></em><span> (Matthew 16:26). But these are statements relativizing the value of </span><em><span>transient and earth-bound </span></em><span>goods</span><em><span>. </span></em><span>Friends, human beings are not transient or earth bound. Human beings, made in the image of God, will outlast the sun, the moon, and the stars. </span></p><p><span>And those for whom you have a deep responsibility&#8212;your spouse and children&#8212;rightly hold a special place in your heart, and their well-being is </span><em><span>rightly </span></em><span>tied to your experience of joy. For a pastor, this tie extends to those in our spiritual charge, the members of the church. So Paul writes of the daily pressure of his anxiety for all the churches (2 Corinthians 11:28). The spiritual wellbeing of those in our charge is not the bedrock of our joy&#8212;Christ himself is the Rock on which we stand. When things are not well with those we love we cling to the Rock who is Christ, for he will hold us fast through those times of storm. But, again, to look to Jesus directly, we see him </span><em><span>weeping </span></em><span>over Jerusalem. He would have gathered the people of the land as a hen gathers her chicks, and he was heartbroken over their refusal to come (Matthew 23:37).</span></p><p><span>So, let me say again: John is </span><em><span>right </span></em><span>to value his children walking in truth as his greatest earthly joy. This joy is not an </span><em><span>idolization </span></em><span>of the family (or the church family), it is a right experience of joy in Christ&#8217;s work </span><em><span>in the life of others.</span></em></p><p><span>Which is a long way of saying: joy in Jesus is a communal reality, not merely an individual one.</span></p><div><hr></div><p><em>The next post will consider some of the ways 3 John helps us see how to <strong>help </strong>our children walk in the truth.</em></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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Type]]></title><description><![CDATA[a scholarly argument]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/joseph-as-a-type</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/joseph-as-a-type</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2026 10:06:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/200773531/2278f4d44d62d5e9dc5e0dd468bd65c0.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!fLNZ!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa9485bfa-7031-436d-b72c-3b1ec373f145_287x445.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!fLNZ!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fa9485bfa-7031-436d-b72c-3b1ec373f145_287x445.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw" fetchpriority="high"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg aria-hidden="true" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 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I have been a (fairly) regular listener to the &#8220;Bible Talk&#8221; podcast that Emadi cohosts with Alex Duke and Jim Hamilton, since 2020. Familiar with him from that podcast, I knew Emadi has a keen eye for detail and structure in the Biblical text.</p><p>The central thesis of this book is that Joseph&#8217;s story, if read carefully and canonically, serves as a type or a foreshadowing of a greater Joseph figure to come. That is, Joseph can legitimately be seen as a type of Christ. </p><p>As I read, I was both delighted and disappointed. I was delighted in just the ways hinted at above &#8212; rigorous attention to the text. The early part of the book defines biblical theology and typology. Emadi then sets the Joseph story within the <em>toledot </em>structure of Genesis, and spends successive chapters examining Joseph&#8217;s place in relationship to the covenant promises of kingship, seed, land and blessing. The final two chapters examine the Joseph story as it is explicated or alluded to in both the OT and the NT. The discussion is meaty, nuanced, and to borrow from DA Carson&#8217;s preface, &#8220;interlocking and cumulative&#8230;finally convincing.&#8221;</p><p>The disappointment is perhaps unfair. Emadi is a clear and compelling verbal communicator, and so I was hoping for a compelling writing style, maybe some sparkling turns of phrase &#8212; and that&#8217;s definitely not this book. The further I read, the more I thought &#8220;this reads like a PhD dissertation.&#8221; And indeed, as it turns out, <a href="https://repository.sbts.edu/entities/publication/1b67f334-5afd-430b-b5ae-46a11081f983">Emadi&#8217;s 2016 dissertation</a> from the SBTS is on this very subject, and most of the chapters overlap. Which explains why there are north of 400 footnotes in a 150 page book.</p><p>So, in sum &#8212; this book is very worthwhile for someone preaching on Joseph or interested in reading a careful and nuanced example of a typological reading. It is quite thorough, and yes, convincing. Just know it won&#8217;t be your easiest read of the week.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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ILIN; translated by George S. Counts &amp; Nucia P. Lodge (New York: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1931)</h3><p>What a fascinating and horrifying book. Written to introduce Russian students between the ages of 12&#8211;14 with the Soviet Union&#8217;s 5-year plan, this book paints a rosy &#8212; no, not rosy, that would be too natural &#8212; a <em>stark white with Soviet R&#8230;</em></p>
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What this means, functionally, is that if you are quick to reply to texts, emails, slack messages, and phone calls, then everyone (especially your boss) will see how busy you are, and that will translate into you being seen as a good employee. Regardless of whether you genuinely <em>produce</em> anything of value.</p><p>Newport rightly sees that this is a completely nonsensical way to work. All of this fractured attention makes it nearly impossible to produce genuinely valuable work. The nature of this hyperactive pseudo-productivity means we&#8217;re tempted &#8212; nay, compelled &#8212; to be plugged into this work all the time. So we&#8217;re checking emails at our kids&#8217; baseball games, taking our laptops on vacation, and sleeping with work plugged in within arms reach.</p><p>But this doesn&#8217;t make us more productive. It doesn&#8217;t help us produce rare or lasting or valuable work. It just keeps us <em>busy</em>. There is a better way.</p><p>Enter <em>Slow Productivity</em>. After briefly examining the problem, Newport spends the bulk of the book on three long chapters, each devoted to a core tenet of his slow-productivity philosophy: Do Fewer Things, Work at a Natural Pace, and Obsess Over Quality.</p><h2>Do Fewer Things</h2><p>&#8220;Do Fewer Things&#8221; feels radical in an age where we are bombarded at every turn with opportunities, demands, and expectations that more and more will be added to our plates. But doing fewer things is based on the acknowledgement that most of us have a very narrow range of activities that &#8220;move the needle,&#8221; as it were. For me, this primarily means studying and people-ing. There are, of course, admin tasks that must be handled. Newport has helpful advice (that won&#8217;t be new to you if you listen to his podcast). But he also has helpful advice on those big, important tasks. Such as, work on fewer things at a time (60-74). He also suggests taming your daily goals (75-76), which may be one of the most revolutionary and freeing ideas in the book for my life. I shouldn&#8217;t try to write a sermon, a newsletter post, and a paper today. I can batch study for those things together, but when I need to do the most cognitively demanding thing &#8212; writing &#8212; I should focus on one task per day.</p><p>One more piece of advice in this section that resonated was his exhortation to hire professionals to do things you could but shouldn&#8217;t do. Spending money &#8212; on professionals, or good software that simplifies your life &#8212; can be invaluable in trying to find focus.</p><h2>Embrace the Natural</h2><p>In his second principle, Newport encourages the reader to work at a natural pace. The core insight here is that human beings are not machines, and mental work is fundamentally different than factory, assembly-line labor. Our brains do not produce widgets, and require rhythms of rest, seasonality, and reprieve in order to produce their best work. I was reminded of Douglas Wilson&#8217;s insight that we should desire to be fruitful like a tree (Psalm 1), not efficient like a machine.</p><p>I was also pondering this as a pastor, and thinking about the value of having time to stew on a message. One thing I&#8217;ve started doing is trying to read in preparation for sermon series 6-12 months in the future. That way, even if that isn&#8217;t fresh in my mind, I&#8217;m not staring at the passage and thinking about it as a sermon text for the first time four days before I&#8217;m standing up to say, &#8220;thus says the LORD.&#8221; By having the text in my meditative consciousness for months on end I&#8217;m able to iterate different ways of structuring, illustrating, explaining, or applying a sermon.</p><p>This principle also applies to my other writing, too. Rather than trying to dash off a paper or a newsletter post, starting early enough that I have time to stew always improves the quality of the final product.</p><p>Some of Newport&#8217;s advice here is gold. &#8220;Double Your Project Timelines&#8221; and &#8220;Simplify Your Workday&#8221; (131-135) were particularly helpful. Though I can&#8217;t yet implement everything he suggests, there are pieces that I obviously need to &#8212; like scheduling study time in a way that treats it as almost sacrosanct.</p><p>A large portion of this chapter was essentially devoted to the idea of seasonality and how to create seasons &#8212; even small ones &#8212; in your life. The practical tips were useful, but it did just make me think, over and over, how wise our ancestors were to have seasons of work, seasons of rest, and seasons of feasting and joy. Read through the Torah with an eye to rest and parties, and you&#8217;ll be surprised.</p><h2>Quality is What Counts</h2><p>The final element of Newport&#8217;s <em>Slow Productivity</em> philosophy is &#8220;obsess over quality.&#8221; And honestly, it&#8217;s the<strong> </strong>point that makes the book work. There&#8217;s a certain type of laziness that could find cover in the importance of &#8220;Do Fewer Things&#8221; (phew!) and &#8220;Work at a Natural Pace&#8221; (as little as possible!) &#8212; but would choke on this last point. Obsessing over quality doesn&#8217;t mean a perfectionism that refuses to &#8220;ship&#8221; work, but it does mean really <em>caring</em> about what you produce.</p><p>As he does throughout the book, Newport draws on individual stories to draw general principles or lessons &#8212; and here he focuses heavily on the recording artist Jewel, who epitomizes a &#8220;focus on quality over quick&#8221; (170). The reality of such prioritizing sometimes means you will miss opportunities (173). But if you do, in fact, produce quality work, you will likely have something more important than short-term opportunities &#8212; long-term options.</p><p>Such a pursuit will require cultivating taste (182-186), honest feedback (189-191), and real sacrifice (194-193, 205-208). It will also, at some point, require you to get clear on what you&#8217;re really trying to do. In regard to this, there was a line in this chapter that grabbed me, when Newport was discussing his own study of films, particularly Tarantino&#8217;s <em>Reservoir Dogs</em>.</p><div class="callout-block" data-callout="true"><p>&#8220;Studying Tarantino, however, I realized that<strong> working with lower genre tropes when pursuing higher ends</strong>, if given the right formal attention, can be a powerful creative enterprise&#8221; (188, emphasis mine).</p></div><p>That, I thought, is what my writing life is all about. I want to put the theology of Augustine and Luther and Calvin in the vernacular of the plumber and the mailman and the farmer. I want to take the interest in philosophy and theology and ethics that I find on Substack and put it in language that would communicate on Facebook. But that project is a lot harder than it sounds. It doesn&#8217;t come in snatches of time here and there, squeezed into the frenzied pace of life given to pseudo-productivity. If I&#8217;m going to do the work I&#8217;m meant to do, it will require a willingness to go deep, and go slow. It&#8217;s time to do fewer things. It&#8217;s time to work at a natural pace. 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   ]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Strategically Small]]></title><description><![CDATA[A brief review of "The Strategically Small Church" by Brandon O'Brien]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/strategically-small</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/strategically-small</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2026 10:59:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!3u-i!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F1228c6cc-ea85-4ac0-899f-a7aa6141af94_971x1500.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://a.co/d/050GCrqF" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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O&#8217;Brien<br><em>The Strategically Small Church</em><br>2nd Edition, Baker Academic, 2025</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Brandon O&#8217;Brien argues in this book for a different ministry paradigm than has been the norm in evangelicalism over the past 50 (plus) years. Rather than seeing &#8220;small&#8221; churches as anomalies, or problems to be fixed, small churches are the norm both globally and historically. Therefore, we must alter our perceptions. Instead of viewing the small church with a scarcity mindset (&#8220;we don&#8217;t have the talent, the budget, the facilities, etc., to do effective ministry&#8221;), we should instead see our <em>normal</em> churches as loved and graced by God with everything necessary to please him.</p><p>O&#8217;Brien devotes one chapter to giving examples from few large ministries attempting to &#8220;get small&#8221; in order to be more effective. The upshot of this is that your normal church already <em>is</em> small, and therefore positioned for effectiveness. He then goes on to discuss the authenticity of a fully local (as opposed to regional) church, the value of being focused and program-lite (he uses the term nimble), the opportunities small churches have to empower community ministry, the immense value of cross-generational relationships, and the unique characteristics of worship in a small church.</p><p>O&#8217;Brien&#8217;s style is engaging&#8212;he does a good job of writing <em>about</em> ministries in various settings in a way that invites you to consider the possibilities in your own context. I often skip stories in non-fiction books because they feel like a ham-fisted way to connect with the reader or an easy way to puff an article-length idea into a full book. Not so here. Whether the congregations in question are Lutherans in western Washington or Baptists in southern Arkansas, O&#8217;Brien helps you catch a glimpse of how God is at work in congregations all over the place.</p><p>That &#8220;all over the place&#8221; is theological, not simply numeric or cultural. O&#8217;Brien operates in this book with what he calls a &#8220;minimally viable ecclesiology&#8221; (p. 21) and will later refer to a &#8220;minimally viable theology of worship&#8221; (p. 115). That might bother you. It would bother me in a theology class, an elders meeting, or a sermon. But in the context of what he is doing with this book&#8212;trying to shake loose your dusty paradigms about church health and success&#8212;I could get past my own disagreements and value the lessons there were to learn, even from those with whom I profoundly disagree.</p><p>In the end, I share O&#8217;Brien&#8217;s vision of the normal church. These churches may be poorly positioned, much of the time, to attract religious consumers. But they have been given by God himself everything they need to make disciples. And, &#8220;[t]he church&#8217;s God-given job description is to make disciples, not to attract consumers.&#8221;</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share Stopping to Think&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share"><span>Share Stopping to Think</span></a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/strategically-small?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/strategically-small?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Marriage Bed]]></title><description><![CDATA[God's Command-Gift]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/the-marriage-bed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/the-marriage-bed</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2026 09:57:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/194910584/94d73d3dd9d0ea46d121c87dfb8e17c9.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A Reading of Chapter 5 from my book <em>A Healthy Marriage </em>(click on the title to go to the Amazon page&#8230;)</p><p></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/the-marriage-bed?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Stopping to Think! 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/communication?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Stopping to Think! This post is public so feel free to share it.</p></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/communication?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/communication?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where the Buck Stops -- the Man]]></title><description><![CDATA[A Healthy Marriage]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/where-the-buck-stops-the-man</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/where-the-buck-stops-the-man</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2026 10:27:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/192526277/895e16b814ea34bc787657a05256754c.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is chapter three from my book, <em>A Healthy Marriage, </em>available by clicking on the image below</p><div class="captioned-button-wrap" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/where-the-buck-stops-the-man?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="CaptionedButtonToDOM"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Stopping to Think! This post is public so feel free to share it.</p></div><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/p/where-the-buck-stops-the-man?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/p/where-the-buck-stops-the-man?utm_source=substack&utm_medium=email&utm_content=share&action=share"><span>Share</span></a></p></div><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@mrrrk_smith">Ioann-Mark Kuznietsov</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com">Unsplash</a></figcaption></figure></div><p><em>This is the audio of chapter two from my book, </em>A Healthy Marriage. <em>If you enjoy, please follow the link below to purchase&#8212;and then rate and review on Amazon, it helps others find it. If you don&#8217;t find it helpful, feel free to buy it anyway, but you can pass on the review, ha!</em></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Marriage-Biblical-Introduction/dp/B0GFMRG4G6/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0">A Healthy Marriage on Amazon.com</a></p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/186235898/60743f48014d363808ab9b135d330c1b.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/Healthy-Marriage-Biblical-Introduction/dp/B0GFMRG4G6/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!tDcK!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f987150-914a-44f8-8342-4528e3fc49e8_326x522.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!tDcK!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F3f987150-914a-44f8-8342-4528e3fc49e8_326x522.jpeg 848w, 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class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[A Healthy Marriage, Introduction]]></title><description><![CDATA[Audiobook]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-healthy-marriage-introduction</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/a-healthy-marriage-introduction</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2026 10:49:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/186237596/7e37981819a7a733c95dcfa771860981.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>This is the introduction to </em>A Healthy Marriage<em>, by yours truly. I plan to post the audio of the first few chapters here for all my subscribers.</em></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ioC8!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F40e74acd-ff1e-4f9b-b0df-df09127437b3_1536x1323.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ioC8!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F40e74acd-ff1e-4f9b-b0df-df09127437b3_1536x1323.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!ioC8!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F40e74acd-ff1e-4f9b-b0df-df09127437b3_1536x1323.jpeg 848w, 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To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Life and Wealth]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now | Two Books--one good, one not so much]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/life-and-wealth</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/life-and-wealth</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2026 11:09:18 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/183256477/14d446323c4162b4341d3db9f2bf5c3a.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2>How to Buy Whole Life</h2><h3>Ryan Griggs</h3><h1>&amp;</h1><h2>Building Your Warehouse of Wealth</h2><h3>R. Nelson Nash</h3><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://www.amazon.com/How-Buy-Whole-Life-Framework/dp/B0F5QVJ32Y/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3QCV33CCGUXZ3&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-N6rRTu_qbw2R707ENNB-TtfjI0KqXsfb9ZTX9KYxFgGat63NHhwHebeQbBxvcChFm4nLFX9ejX4DtjgyPQFMGuUYcXf-Vm2wJ11kd7egLTBBtlGXjd04nnOz8qRfDHi44drdE4MDpESEI_su8FuiRITUthnWRbw0epwugaD_0n4B8AxkCRG-5X6BcOj8btiueCY9ALtLGcA5DmjxUWam4ze7-hERdA6BdegXuX-bqA.Gec-JaTFeR-yyGMLL-sSFuvAbe_pzN2r4JH0v2i8zZs&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=how+to+buy+whole+life+insurance&amp;qid=1767371391&amp;sprefix=how+to+buy+whole+life+insuranc%2Caps%2C215&amp;sr=8-1" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!gSjK!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F1e2a3242-479c-4421-897d-2b147b7ee6bd_1500x1500.jpeg 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viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>I read these two books in tandem. Nash is the brain behind the <a href="https://infinitebanking.org/">Infinite Banking Concept</a>, a method of using cash-value whole life insurance to super-charge one&#8217;s savings and then using the accumulated access to capital as a source of financing those things in life that need financed&#8212;vehicles, homes, investments, etc. In short, it&#8217;s a system to take control of the banking function for one&#8217;s life and family.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zM2C!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg" width="297" height="445" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/2d98a64f-ebe2-4e98-bf15-1b3dad232fb3_297x445.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:445,&quot;width&quot;:297,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Building Your Warehouse of Wealth-by R. Nelson Nash-infinite Banking Concepts (A Grassroots Method of Avoiding Fractional Reserve Banking-Think About It!)&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Building Your Warehouse of Wealth-by R. Nelson Nash-infinite Banking Concepts (A Grassroots Method of Avoiding Fractional Reserve Banking-Think About It!)" title="Building Your Warehouse of Wealth-by R. 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This was my second time reading it&#8212;and it didn&#8217;t improve. Don&#8217;t get me wrong, there are some helpful concepts here. But on the whole, this book comes across as the disorganized rambling of a grumpy old man. The contrarian streak&#8212;which I appreciate&#8212;drifts into conspiracy-adjacentness. The longest chapter is a retelling of the Israel narrative that badly misconstrues the Biblical text and its emphases. The book is worth skimming for a few more IBC ideas, but this book doesn&#8217;t merit a close read.</p><p>On the other hand, Griggs&#8217; <em>How to Buy Whole Life </em>is a gold mine of clear explanation about how whole life works, addressing much of &#8216;noise&#8217; online that tries to turn IBC into a get-rich-quick scheme. He illustrates that for IBC to work well, you have to be committed to it for the long-term, and this reality affects how one structures their policies today. And it excludes using it with a short-term mindset. Griggs has written, quite simply, the best and most helpful book I&#8217;ve read on the subject.&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;</p><p>Here is a link to his Youtube channel: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUw6sumghqHg8YU_x8WPSaA">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUw6sumghqHg8YU_x8WPSaA </a></p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://give-rhma.org/missionary-detail/dole-account&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Support our Ministry&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;button-wrapper&quot;}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary button-wrapper" href="https://give-rhma.org/missionary-detail/dole-account"><span>Support our Ministry</span></a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Bad Idea Whack-A-Mole]]></title><description><![CDATA[Well, it's just two moles]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/bad-idea-whack-a-mole</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/bad-idea-whack-a-mole</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Feb 2026 20:54:25 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1715195483059-77d76a0c70c7?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHx3aGFjayUyMGElMjBtb2xlfGVufDB8fHx8MTc2OTkwMDg2Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1715195483059-77d76a0c70c7?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=M3wzMDAzMzh8MHwxfHNlYXJjaHwxfHx3aGFjayUyMGElMjBtb2xlfGVufDB8fHx8MTc2OTkwMDg2Mnww&amp;ixlib=rb-4.1.0&amp;q=80&amp;w=1080" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div 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height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a><figcaption class="image-caption">Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@3kolone">Nikola  Toma&#353;i&#263;</a> on <a href="https://unsplash.com">Unsplash</a>  </figcaption></figure></div><div class="native-video-embed" data-component-name="VideoPlaceholder" data-attrs="{&quot;mediaUploadId&quot;:&quot;0815ee5a-8724-47d6-a5b7-9a17bd8b40b1&quot;,&quot;duration&quot;:null}"></div><h1>Bad Parenting Advice</h1><p>I sometimes wonder if my wife is trying to collect the life insurance money. Sometimes she sends me things just to spike my blood pressure. </p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><p>Recently, she sent me a video on Instagram (which I will not link to here) that summarized some teaching that I&#8217;ve heard in various contexts. It goes something like this: </p><blockquote><p>&#8220;the book of Proverbs doesn&#8217;t teach you to spank your kids. The word <em>rod </em>in Proverbs just means <em>authority, </em>so it doesn&#8217;t mean you need to use corporal punishment. Physical correction doesn&#8217;t have anything to do with being a good parent.&#8221;</p></blockquote><p>First of all, I want to acknowledge that the word <em>rod </em>in the Old Testament certainly <em>can </em>be used in a way that denotes a place or position of authority. <em>she.vet </em>in the Hebrew Bible often refers to tribes or judges, or a scepter which <em>represents</em> rule or authority. So far, so good.</p><p>The problem is, <strong>none</strong> of the uses in Proverbs fit that profile.</p><p>The basic meaning of the word is a rod/staff/club. It can be used metaphorically in reference to authority. But how, I wonder, did such a metaphor ever come to work? You guessed it&#8212;someone was <em>wielding</em> authority! That wasn&#8217;t just a reality in the days of  Solomon. It remains true today. Authority which has no recourse to disciplinary action is no authority. The state has (by mandate of God, see Romans 13) the power of the sword. The church exercises the keys of the kingdom, and while it does not use force to coerce belief, it does <em>cut off </em>from the Table (excommunicate) those who reject Christ by apostate life or doctrine. In this sense, the healthy church <em>exercises </em>authority over the profession of faith, and determines the apparent legitimacy of that profession. And in the home, parents are <em>required by God </em>to exercise corrective force. </p><h3>You can read. I believe in you.</h3><p>Let&#8217;s briefly examine all the uses of &#8220;rod&#8221; in Proverbs, asking this question: could we plausibly read &#8220;rod&#8221; simply as authority, without any connotation of physical correction?</p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 10:13</strong> On the lips of him who has understanding, wisdom is found, but a rod is for the back of him who lacks sense.</p></blockquote><p>A <em>rod </em>is for the <em>back </em>of him who lacks sense&#8212;so, are to we to assume that someone&#8217;s authoritative presence is just pressing down on the back of the fool? Or that a fool is being corrected (rather forcefully)? For the record, I don&#8217;t think this verse is referring to parenting, I simply think we should note that the obvious meaning of <em>rod</em> is to a stick, with which a fool&#8217;s back is meeting.</p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 13:24</strong> Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him.</p></blockquote><p>How is one so &#8220;spare the rod&#8221; if <em>rod </em>simply means authority? In the Bible, to be a parent&#8212;especially a father&#8212;is to <em>have </em>authority, whether one chooses to faithfully exercise that authority or not. In fact, the very premise of this verse is that a parent who refuses to<em> </em>discipline his son <em>with the rod</em> is failing to love that son&#8212;how so? Because <em>sparing the rod</em> is failing to use the <em>means </em>by which loving and authoritative correction takes place. </p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 22:8</strong> Whoever sows injustice will reap calamity, and the rod of his fury will fail.</p></blockquote><p>Again, not a parenting verse. But, does &#8220;authority of his fury&#8221; make any sense of the verse? No. In fact, we <em>could </em>apply this verse to abusive use of the rod&#8212;if you use the rod in your fury, if you are unjust in the exercise of authoritative correction, you are bringing calamity upon your own head.</p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 22:15</strong> Folly is bound up in the heart of a child, but the rod of discipline drives it far from him.</p></blockquote><p>The <em>rod </em>of discipline in this verse is <em>driving </em>folly from a child&#8217;s heart. How do you suppose it does that? Through a gentle conversation? Through the application of more rules (those things which fools rejoice is flaunting)? Or perhaps, as would seem to be the plain reading of the text, the board of education being applied to the seat of understanding makes folly seem less appealing. </p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 23:13</strong> Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die.</p></blockquote><p>Are you striking your child with your authoritative position as his parent? I&#8217;ve listened to parents make threats based on that. And their anger is both emotionally manipulative and impotent to effect real change. Or, we could&#8212;let me repeat myself&#8212;read the verse naturally: correct stupid and foolish behavior in a way that is, shall we say, memorable, and do them a substantial amount of long-term good.</p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 23:14</strong> If you strike him with the rod, you will save his soul from Sheol.</p></blockquote><p>What is the verb in the first half of this verse? Remember, the basic meaning of the word <em>rod </em>is a staff or stick. </p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 26:3</strong> A whip for the horse, a bridle for the donkey, and a rod for the back of fools.</p></blockquote><p>A redux of of Proverbs 10:13, but here in a pithy statement saying, &#8220;here&#8217;s the means of correcting each of these categories.&#8221; Physically correcting, insofar as I understand whips and bridles. </p><blockquote><p><strong>Proverbs 29:15</strong> The rod and reproof give wisdom, but a child left to himself brings shame to his mother.</p></blockquote><p>Again, note the fact in this verse that trying to read <em>rod</em> as a mere symbol of authority simply does violence to the text. The rod is a <em>tool </em>in the hands of authority. The mother of a child <em>has </em>authority, but if she refuses to apply the rod and give reproof, that positional authority will leave her full of shame. Why? Because she won&#8217;t have imparted the wisdom God wanted her child to have. </p><p>Did I mention that <strong>none</strong> of the occurrences of <em>rod </em>in Proverbs fits the &#8220;rod as a metaphor for authority&#8221; use of the word? Right. Maybe if the context had suggested such a use the <em>translators would have figured that out. </em>Our English translations aren&#8217;t perfect (no translation is), but let&#8217;s get real: translators know the languages of the Bible better than you do, and better than some random dude or gal trying to sell books or get followers on the internet. </p><h3>Conclusion (of this section)</h3><p>Here&#8217;s the deal: we&#8217;re tempted to look for all kinds of plausible sounding arguments to squirm around a plain reading of the Bible. Especially on a subject that feels so counter-cultural.</p><p>Ladies, if you&#8217;re drawn to these arguments, you need to quit getting your theology from Instagramers, and listen to what your husband says regarding child-discipline. See Ephesians 5:22.</p><p>Men, if you&#8217;re tempted by</p><p> these ideas, then buy a Bible and a set of reading glasses. </p><p>What the Bible says here isn&#8217;t very hard to understand. Trying to dance around what Proverbs teaches about parenting requires more twists and turns than an Olympic figure skating routine. </p><p>Obedience doesn&#8217;t take some special understanding or a PhD in Hebrew Linguistics. It just takes a lot of work&#8212;diligent work to be attentive to our children, diligent work to maintain consistent and reasonable rules in our homes, diligent work to apply the rod with discretion, diligent work to master our own emotions and thoughts and bring them into conformity to Jesus Christ. </p><p>And that diligent work is at the core of what parenting is all about. </p><div><hr></div><h1>Related: A Word on Authority&#8212;with a special exhortation to fathers</h1><div class="native-video-embed" data-component-name="VideoPlaceholder" data-attrs="{&quot;mediaUploadId&quot;:&quot;c39efcf3-0a2b-4021-ba83-5b26932dd624&quot;,&quot;duration&quot;:null}"></div><p></p><div><hr></div><h1>Bad Preaching Advice</h1><p>I&#8217;m a pastor, which means a lot of what I do is related to preaching. A lot of the reading and writing and internet searches I do are connected to preaching. And the algorithm knows this.</p><p>Which means I have been seeing <em>a ton </em>of ads related to the <em>Art of Teaching </em>masterclass. This is a masterclass taught by world-renowned communicators like Jon Tyson, John Mark Comer, and Charlie Dates. I&#8217;ve got no real opinion on any of these folks, other than they seem to be really good at what they do.</p><p>But some of the ads annoy me greatly. There&#8217;s one which, now that I&#8217;m looking for it, I can&#8217;t seem to find. I wanted to screenshot it, but I&#8217;ll have to describe it for you. It describes a &#8220;term paper&#8221; this way:</p><blockquote><p><em>Intro. Three Points. Conclusion</em></p></blockquote><p>And then it describes a &#8220;sermon&#8221; this way:</p><blockquote><p><em>Hook. Then, engage head. Heart. Hands.</em> </p></blockquote><p><strong>UPDATE: I have found the offending post, and here it is for your viewing pleasure:</strong></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg" width="526" height="526" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:526,&quot;width&quot;:526,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:28517,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/i/186454579?img=https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg&quot;,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!KFZI!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F6f09acf6-9c9a-499f-b197-c63234972765_526x526.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg aria-hidden="true" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p>The obvious implication is that many people &#8220;preach&#8221; term papers, and that&#8217;s bad. Very bad. Not what Jesus would do. Or Comer or Dates or Tyson. If you would like your preaching to not be bad, very bad, term-paper bad, then they will show you, for just $2,599 (<em>though currently on discount now for only <strong>$249!</strong></em>), a more excellent way. </p><p>Away from the land of term papers, into the promised land of preaching like the pros!</p><h3>Really?</h3><p>Look, I&#8217;m actually a fan of narrative structure in a sermon. Though I disagreed with a lot of it, I found much value in Eugene Lowry&#8217;s <em>The Homiletical Plot </em>when I read it last year. Sermons <em>should </em>have unity and movement. A sermon should feel like it&#8217;s <em>going </em>somewhere. On this point, see especially T. David Gordon&#8217;s, <em>Why Johnny Can&#8217;t Preach. </em>A longer treatment from a different perspective, but still from a preacher who could really <em>preach</em> is D. Martyn Lloyd-Jones&#8217;s <em>Preaching and Preachers. </em></p><p>I want preachers to be better. I want them to hone their craft, improve their craft, not be okay with simply filling in a pre-set three point outline. I agree with Gordon that most preaching is, quite frankly, pretty bad. So any course that genuinely helps preachers move in the right direction is welcome.</p><p>But was it not obvious to the people putting together the advertising for this Masterclass that &#8220;head, heart, hands&#8221; constitutes <em><strong>three points</strong></em>?!?!</p><p>This annoys me to no end. There are <em>all sorts</em> of faithful sermon structures. The question is whether the point of the text is being communicated clearly and persuasively. Variety of form is useful. Freshness is the pulpit is fantastic, so long as it is a faithful freshness. But don&#8217;t tell me to drop a three point outline and then just change the words for the three points and expect me to think you&#8217;re selling something profound. I hope the preaching instruction in that course is better than the marketing. </p><p>Okay. I&#8217;m done ranting now. Back to our regularly scheduled programming.</p><p class="button-wrapper" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Share Stopping to Think&quot;,&quot;action&quot;:null,&quot;class&quot;:null}" data-component-name="ButtonCreateButton"><a class="button primary" href="https://willdole.substack.com/?utm_source=substack&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_content=share&amp;action=share"><span>Share Stopping to Think</span></a></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Fighting Mice and Paul's Greatest Letter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Watch now | A couple of books]]></description><link>https://willdole.substack.com/p/fighting-mice-and-pauls-greatest</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://willdole.substack.com/p/fighting-mice-and-pauls-greatest</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Will Dole]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 11:10:21 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://api.substack.com/feed/podcast/183255146/5452ea50f5dbe338d07b89c21ce3d885.mp3" length="0" type="audio/mpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://a.co/d/gytXyEY" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GRhE!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F76efe34b-afd4-4ac3-b936-e81dbecf146c_979x1500.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!GRhE!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F76efe34b-afd4-4ac3-b936-e81dbecf146c_979x1500.jpeg 848w, 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He uses a broad vocabulary in a way that feels natural, not pretentious. He handles difficult scenarios&#8212;great wrongdoing, death, etc.&#8212;in a manner that is factual without being gratuitous. We are looking forward to continuing to read through this series.&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://willdole.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Stopping to Think is a reader-supported publication. 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Wilson does a good job of pressing into present application, and doesn&#8217;t allow the theology of this letter to float around up in the air.</p><p>Coming from a clearly Reformed perspective, I thought he did an excellent job explaining the meat of the gospel in chapters 1-8. The way he glories in God&#8217;s wisdom in chapter 11 was soul-stirring.</p><p>The excurses in chapter 13 about what submission to governing authorities &#8216;really&#8217; means was a mixed bag. But the word he gives on 13:8, &#8216;owe no one anything&#8217; was very good. 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